People Share Their First Date Horror Stories

The date is already uncomfortable when he decides to say the quiet part out loud. He asks if she’s “all woman,” then doubles down by suggesting she must’ve had surgery because, in his mind, women aren’t supposed to be as “masculine” as she is.

There’s no misunderstanding here, just ignorance delivered with confidence. What should’ve been a simple dinner turns into an interrogation fueled by outdated stereotypes and entitlement. The night doesn’t unravel slowly — it ends the moment he proves he’s not just rude, but fundamentally unsafe to engage with.